It shouldn’t work.
That’s the first truth you must swallow — the image of a man in lace, in silk, in something soft and forbidden — should collapse under ridicule. That’s what you were taught. That’s what the world expects. Men are meant to be hard, covered, commanding. To expose the body in delicate fabric is to weaken it. To wear something meant for women is to degrade, to confuse, to emasculate.